Truth and Honesty: Favorite Photo

Tuesday, May 21, 2013


A favorite photo of yourself

I was away so this is a post I missed out posting - but still really wanted to. I hope you don't mind.

As Patrick's photography skills have improved so have the photos I have of myself. I couldn't pick one but I feel like both of these represent who I am in so many ways. He captured me the way he sees me. The way I look when it's just him and I, which can be quite different to how I look to/for the rest of the world. In these photos I feel like I am in my element. Enjoying the sun and being by the ocean. The first one was after a day of swimming at the beach. I was tired and red, finally out of a bathing suit and ready for a glass of wine. No make-up. Damp hair. Just me. No photoshop. No filters. Just a young woman who has good days and bad days. Who has her insecurities. Her vulnerabilities. But who isn't afraid. Who, for the most part, is confident enough to say, this is me. Get to know me if you like. Judge me if you like. But you will never judge me as harshly as I do myself nor will you love me as much as I love myself. 



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From the Archives


Favorite posts from your archive


In The Beginning - the story so far 

A Night on a Boat - in Fiji - traveling (by boat) in Fiji 

Life on an Island (Taveuni - Fiji) 


The Videos - videos made and edited by me! 

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To Adopt or To Not...

Monday, May 20, 2013


Share something you're struggling with right now.


Firstly, I've been away for the past few days. If we're friends on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or real life, you'd know that I surprised my nieces in Queensland. We cooked, baked, danced, played, built forts, sang and did each others hair. Blogging was furthest from my mind, and whilst I enjoy Blog Ever Day in May enormously, it was nice not to think about posts and linking-up. Since being home I must admit I have been excited to get back into it. 

Now, to today's prompt. I was a little disappointed with this prompt, it just seems a little too similar to one that's already been done and a few coming up (or maybe my answers are similar/the same for all of them). If we've been friends for a bit you'd know I'm struggling with infertility - though 'struggling' hardly seems like the best word. It isn't a struggle. It took a little adjusting and now I've adjusted. 

I'm coming to terms of thinking about adoption more seriously. In true 'Vanisha' manner I'm looking up books to read and people to talk to. It's a big decision. One I thought I had made but maybe I haven't...That's a struggle. There really isn't much I can say about it that you haven't already read. Maybe in a few days I will find the words to explain the here and now emotions. 

Have you adopted children? 
Do you have thoughts? 
Favorite blogs on the subject? Books? 


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